"I always tell women that there is only one thing they should ever ask from a man. When they ask me what that one thing is, I tell them OBEDIENCE!"
- Marisa Rudder, Author
Couples Love Female Led
WORLD'S BESTSELLING FEMALE LED RELATIONSHIP SERIES
“Hi Marisa! Thank you ever so much for introducing my fiance and I to this wonderful relationship tool! My man has never been so loving and caring and I’ve never been so sexually satisfied. I get more oral sex in a day than many women do in a month and he is now thanking me for letting him go down on me. We bought him a chastity device now and he says his orgasms are so much better after having to wait for them and having to earn them and he says it drives him insane with frustration becasue now he can't secretly masturbate and get relief. We learned from your book that it is possible to become sexually heightened when you deny and when you are denied sexual pleasure? Marisa, your techniques really work. At least that’s what we’ve gathered personally and from all the positive reviews of your new book. For the most part, we both love it. My husband has turned into a regular Romeo. At first I had to train him to think right, so I got him Real Men Worship Women, and now he understands that sex is for my pleasure and his pleasure should could from satisfying me. Before he read Real Men Worship women, he used to say things like, 'why do you get to cum so many times and I cum so little.' Now he understands how it works and he has submitted to my female authority so much more. He behaves perfectly now hoping I'll give him an early release. I love it.
"My girlfriend suggested that I read this book. She said that in her relationship she is the final decision maker, as well as the Queen of the home, she said it is very fulfilling and exciting on so many levels. I was not even aware that a female led Relationship was a possibility. Yes, we all know the woman is the boss in many families. It's just not expressed so publicly. In a Love & Obey FLR, both partners are proud of the arrangement."
"We were curious about cuckolding so we read this book. At the time, we were friends with a guy, who I worked with and we both liked him. He was good looking and cool, and we all hung out on the weekends together. When Laura and I were having sex I'd talk dirty to Laura about fucking him. She is really into talking dirty especially when she is close to orgasm. One night after hours of drinking and smoking weed with our friend Anthony. She suddenly reached between his legs and grabbed him. He looked at me and I just smiled for some reason. Then Laura dropped her panties, lifted her dress and arched up to guide him into herself. Soon he started pounding her as I watched. We went from talking and reading about the fantasy - to living it and we were hooked on this cuckolding lifestyle"
“I think most men are raised by their mothers and Loving Female Authority is not really as foreign to them as you would imagine. My husband and I now live the Love & Obey lifestyle and it's really working for us. He is respectful and obedient and shows his love to me everyday. I have become his Queen and he thinks only about my pleasure. Female Led Relationships are really a dream come true for me. I really can't imagine why every woman doesn't want one."
"I knew what my husband needed and I knew I was going to enjoy giving it to him. I lay him down on the couch with a bed pillow to hold on to as he prepares himself for his disciplining. I begin with my hand which gives a firm swat. I have learned to spank him as hard as I can until he can barely stand it. A good hand spanking makes his backside numb so the later swats become less painful. Now I slip his pants down to his knees and I'm above him. After 15 minutes I tell him to get ready so I can do my job. That’s when the real spanking begins. I grab my bamboo paddle and spank harder. The intensity of the spanking grows and grows, and it’s a challenge for him to hold still. He uses the pillow I gave him to cling to and wipe the sweat off his brow, as he screams into the pillow, and eventually he wipes tears away. He is crying at the end of the session with pain but I know he feels so emotionally relieved and so do I. He knows I am in charge and that I rule over him. He knows he will be more obedient and respectful of my authority over him. This book has taught us both everything we needed to know about spanking and male discipline. It's been fantastic for our relationship."
"I wanted to improve my oral sex skills, and I saw this book on Amazon. Many times, after my wife has had a long day and maybe she's not in the mood to have intercourse, I’ll tell her to relax and start giving her a head-to-toe massage. I always hope it’ll end up with intercourse, and sometimes it does, but if it doesn’t, she can no longer resist me going down on her becasue now she knows I know what I'm doing now and she knows she'll be climaxing."
“I like to think of myself as a good guy but my marriage was on the rocks. I bought myself Real Men Worship Women and Love & Obey for my wife and we learned about FLR and one really important point "If I really love my wife, I will obey my wife and do what she wants to make her happy." Now we're both happier than ever.”
“I was so nervous, my boyfriend said he had a fantasy and he wanted to watch me have sex with another man. At first I thought it was just some weird phase he was going through, but he kept on pushing it on me. Finally, I decided that I should find out more about it, so I looked online and found this Cuckolding book. After reading it, I discovered that what he was fantasizing about was common for many men. After thinking about it, I realized that I could have my cake and eat it too, so I set something up with a guy I knew from work and we both had a great time. Now we're enjoying our Cuckolding lifestyle."
“I bought Marisa's book and my husband a Chastity Device for an early Christmas present. He had tried to get me interested in keeping him locked up. But everytime he would bring it up I would shy away because I just thought it was really weird and I didn't want to get into some kinky lifestyle. But after he kept asking and I did some research, I realized that it's not that weird and thousands of couples are doing it and they seem to love the results. So last Christmas I decided to go for it and I'm glad we did. So far, we both love using it. Ironically,I am loving it more than he does. I learned so much from Marisa's book, I found out that I should feel justified in controlling him by increasing his wait for his release and his orgasms. It seems the longer I tease him and make him wait the better behaved he becomes. He treats me with incredible respect and is eager to please me so that he can earn his release and be allowed to orgasm. He behaves so much better now and I come home to a clean house and a man who is ready to go down on me for hours. And when I do allow him to have sex he is so grateful and he has such huge orgasms that he wakes up the whole neighborhood screaming.
"I was secretly attracted to the idea of a woman being the boss in a relationship, taking the lead, giving directions, making decisions. I enjoy being focused on pleasing and pampering my woman and making her happy. I explored around on the net and found Love & Obey on Twitter and found there are surprising number of couples who are really happy in a female led relationship. I recently met a a very strong, dominant and successful career woman and I think she just might become my Queen, so my fantasy of a fmeale led reltionship may soon become my reality. I've got my fingers crossed."
“I was so nervous. I had no idea what women wanted when it came to Oral Sex. So I decided to read Oral Sex For Women! The first time I tried out some of the techniques and positions on my girlfriend, I could see that she was pleasantly surprised. About a week into it, she asked me, "Where did you learn how to go down like that. You were amazing?" Needless to say, I'm not nervous about going down anymore!"
"A girlfriend of mine is married and has a great husband and she always seems so happy. So I asked her, "Is being married really that damn good?" She told me, "No, traditional marriage sucks!" But then she said she was in a Love & Obey Female Led Marriage. On top of that she said that her husband also likes to be cuckolded. I was shocked. She recommended this Love & Obey book series to me and I have been reading about FLR. It is changing my way of thinking about my lifestyle and patriarchal upbringing. My friend is really the happiest woman I know. She is treated like a Queen and obviously really enjoys her sex life. I'm looking for a guy who wants to live an FLR with me too. I'm still on the fence about cuckolding."
“I read Love & Obey and learned how to live and act like a goddess. Now my husband worships me as his goddess and does everything I ask from him. I reward him with more love than he can handle. It's definetly working for us.”
“I didn't know how Jessica would take it when I told her I wanted to try a Female Led Relationship. I told her that I had read Real Men Worship Women and that she should read Love & Obey. These books really changed our lives. Today, we're living a dream female led relationship and we both couldn't be happier.”
If you have a need or a desire for spanking and want to learn from a wonderful book and a no-nonsense professional, I highly recommend Queen Marisa's Spanking Book. My husband fell into the latter category. Although I knew he had what seems like a lifetime of desire to be spanked I had never acted upon it with him until recently. After reading Love and Obey and my husband read Real Men Worship Women, we were well into our Female Led Lifestyle. She is very honest and straightforward about who she is, and what she is trying to accomplish. She really lives and believes in a Female Led Lifestyle. She is a real no-nonsense straight shooter! I was convinced her book was the perfect choice to get my husband and I into spanking and male discipline. Boy was I right, after reading the book, I began spanking my husband every time he was disrespectful, or had a lapse in his obedience and disobeyed me. His behavior improved dramatically and what was amazing, he was thanking me for improving him and straightening him out. He said he craved being my perfect man and thanked me for helping him to get to that point.
“When I bought Love & Obey for my wife and Real Men Worship Women for me, it changed everything for us. We are both proud of who we are and my obedience to my wife just makes everything run smooth. A happy wife really does means a happy life.”
"I never really thought much about oral sex for women, but when a lady I really liked said, "You are selfish and don't really think about me." I asked her why she said that and she answered, "We've been having sex for six months and you never went down on me once. I go down on you but you never do me." So I thought I better learn more about oral sex for women. So I got the book and soon I understood what she meant. It's a whole new world of sex now and we are both enjoying oral sex as much as intercourse. This book showed me the best positions and and best ways to give her mind blowing orgasms. It's everything I need to know about oral sex to keep my lady really satisfied. Believe me, she's not complaining anymore."
“I was afraid of Female Authority, when I first heard about it. I thought it was some dominatrix kind of thing. I imagined something dark and perverted. That's not what Love & Obey is about at all. I learned that obedience to me is an expression of my man's love for me.”