Welcome to Author Marisa Rudder's Love & Obey Movement...A New Vision of Life that Celebrates Women
"When a man desires a woman it gives her a decisive advantage over him. Because of man's natural desire for women, men have been handed over to women. Men can be taught to Love and Obey."
- Marisa Rudder, Feminist Author
“Hi Marisa! Thank you ever so much for introducing my fiance and I to this wonderful relationship tool! My man has never been so loving and caring and I’ve never been so sexually satisfied. Your techniques really work. At least that’s what we’ve gathered personally and from all the positive reviews of your new book. For the most part, we both love it. My husband has turned into a regular Romeo. At first I had to train him to think right, so I got him Real Men Worship Women, and now he understands that sex is for my pleasure and his pleasure should could from satisfying me. Before he read Real Men Worship women, he used to say things like, 'why do you get to cum so many times and I cum so little.' Now he understands how it works and he has submitted to my female authority so much more. He behaves perfectly now hoping I'll give him an early release. I love it.
- Monica, 28
"My wife and I have been in a female led relationship for about 6 months and I realize that I am still struggling with submitting to her authority over me because of my upbringing. This book has really helped me to reprogram my mind to accept her leadership and learn to be more submissive to her. Submitting to Female Authority
is not how I was raised. In my family my father was in charge but my parents also got divorced and I ended up having a terrible time in my teens in a broken home. I have seen through personal experience that women are much better communicators and much better at managing relationships than men. Since we have been in a female led relationship, we have never been happier."
- Jeffrey, 33
“I like to think of myself as a good guy but my marriage was on the rocks. I bought myself Real Men Worship Women and Love & Obey for my wife and we learned about FLR and one really important point "If I really love my wife, I will obey my wife and do what she wants to make her happy." Now we're both happier than ever.”
- Lucas, 27
"My girlfriend suggested that I read this book. She said that in her relationship she is the final decision maker, as well as the Queen of the home, she said it is very fulfilling and exciting on so many levels. I was not even aware that a female led Relationship was a possibility. Yes, we all know the woman is the boss in many families. It's just not expressed so publicly. In a Love & Obey FLR, both partners are proud of the arrangement."
- Monique, 26
"I knew what my husband needed and I knew I was going to enjoy giving it to him. I lay him down on the couch with a bed pillow to hold on to as he prepares himself for his disciplining. I begin with my hand which gives a firm swat. I have learned to spank him as hard as I can until he can barely stand it. A good hand spanking makes his backside numb so the later swats become less painful. He knows I am in charge and that I rule over him. He knows he will be more obedient and respectful of my authority over him. This book has taught us both everything we needed to know about spanking and male discipline. It's been fantastic for our relationship."
- Kathy, 29
"My wife and I have been married for about 3 years and I felt like our sex life had become dull. I talked to my wife about the idea of trying some swinging. At first, she was really against it but then we saw this Swinging book and decided to buy it. I told my wife that we should investigate it. At first she was not enthusiastic at all but she agreed to read it with me. When she started to hear about how popular it was and all the benefits that psychologists say it can offer to a couple, she became more interested. This book really helped change our thinking and open us up to the more more modern idea of "consensual non-monogamy" needless to say we decided to give it a try and we haven't looked back since.
- Jeffrey, 33
"I have been leading our marriage for a long time but we wre not in a formal female led relationship and I really wanted to make it more official. However, we have young children and I was oncerned about
how it may impact them. I bought Marisa's book and realized that gender stereotypes and patriarchal gender biases are so much worse than gender freedom and instilling feminist values and respect for women in my children,. Now we are all living in a female led family and the kids are amazing becasue they are free now to be themselves and we are all thriving. It was exactly what we all needed in our family.
- Jennifer 31
“I didn't know how Jessica would take it when I told her I wanted to try a Female Led Relationship. I told her that I had read Real Men Worship Women and that she should read Love & Obey. These books really changed our lives. Today, we're living a dream female led relationship and we both couldn't be happier.”
- Michael, 32
“I was so nervous, my boyfriend said he had a fantasy and he wanted to watch me have sex with another man. At first I thought it was just some weird phase he was going through, but he kept on pushing it on me. Finally, I decided that I should find out more about it, so I looked online and found this Cuckolding book. After reading it, I discovered that what he was fantasizing about was common for many men. After thinking about it, I realized that I could have my cake and eat it too, so I set something up with a guy I knew from work and we both had a great time. Now we're enjoying our Cuckolding lifestyle."
- Yini, 21
“I bought Marisa's book and my husband a Chastity Device for an early Christmas present. He had tried to get me interested in keeping him locked up. But everytime he would bring it up I would shy away because I just thought it was really weird and I didn't want to get into some kinky lifestyle. But after he kept asking and I did some research, I realized that it's not that weird and thousands of couples are doing it and they seem to love the results. So last Christmas I decided to go for it and I'm glad we did. So far, we both love using it. Ironically,I am loving it more than he does. I learned so much from Marisa's book, I found out that I should feel justified in controlling him by increasing his wait for his release and his orgasms. It seems the longer I tease him and make him wait the better behaved he becomes. He treats me with incredible respect and is eager to please me so that he can earn his release and be allowed to orgasm. He behaves so much better now and I come home to a clean house and a man who is ready to go down on me for hours. And when I do allow him to have sex he is so grateful and he has such huge orgasms that he wakes up the whole neighborhood screaming.
"I never really thought much about oral sex for women, but when a lady I really liked said, "You are selfish and don't really think about me." I asked her why she said that and she answered, "We've been having sex for six months and you never went down on me once. I go down on you but you never do me." So I thought I better learn more about oral sex for women. So I got the book and soon I understood what she meant. It's a whole new world of sex now and we are both enjoying oral sex as much as intercourse. This book showed me the best positions and and best ways to give her mind blowing orgasms. It's everything I need to know about oral sex to keep my lady really satisfied. Believe me, she's not complaining anymore."
- Dante, 29
“I read Love & Obey and learned how to live and act like a goddess. Now my husband worships me as his goddess and does everything I ask from him. I reward him with more love than he can handle. It's definetly working for us.”
- Stephanie, 28
"I wanted to improve my oral sex skills, and I saw this book on Amazon. Many times, after my wife has had a long day and maybe she's not in the mood to have intercourse, I’ll tell her to relax and start giving her a head-to-toe massage. I always hope it’ll end up with intercourse, and sometimes it does, but if it doesn’t, she can no longer resist me going down on her becasue now she knows I know what I'm doing now and she knows she'll be climaxing."
"A girlfriend of mine is married and has a great husband and she always seems so happy. So I asked her, "Is being married really that damn good?" She told me, "No, traditional marriage sucks!" But then she said she was in a Love & Obey Female Led Marriage. On top of that she said that her husband also likes to be cuckolded. I was shocked. She recommended this Love & Obey book series to me and I have been reading about FLR. It is changing my way of thinking about my lifestyle and patriarchal upbringing. My friend is really the happiest woman I know. She is treated like a Queen and obviously really enjoys her sex life. I'm looking for a guy who wants to live an FLR with me too. I'm still on the fence about cuckolding."
- Rebecca, 33
"My wife and I have been married for about 7 years when we came across the Love & Obey Book Series. We read Love & Obey and Real Men Worship Women first and that got us started on our female led relationship adventure. We kept adding books and each one took us to new places and new experiences. The biggest book for us was Cuckolding. When my wife and I read that and we agreed that she should try it, we were very nervous but we followed Marisa's advice and it was an intense experience that my wife and I both enjoyed. We just saw Marisa's new book, Swinging, and my wife agreed that we should give it a try together. We found a swinging party and the first time my wife and I engaged in a full swap and we really enjoyed it. Now we have switched from Cuckolding to swinging parties and she lets me take a walk on the wild side with her. What can I say I guess I am am really lucky to have such a generous Queen. We both really enjoy the lifestyle now and having outside partners together.
- Patrick, 34
"We were curious about cuckolding so we read this book. At the time, we were friends with a guy, who I worked with and we both liked him. He was good looking and cool, and we all hung out on the weekends together. When Laura and I were having sex I'd talk dirty to Laura about fucking him. She is really into talking dirty especially when she is close to orgasm. One night after hours of drinking and smoking weed with our friend Anthony. She suddenly reached between his legs and grabbed him. He looked at me and I just smiled for some reason. Then Laura dropped her panties, lifted her dress and arched up to guide him into herself. Soon he started pounding her as I watched. We went from talking and reading about the fantasy - to living it and we were hooked on this cuckolding lifestyle"
- Timothy, 24
"I never believed that females were superior to males, until I met Stephanie and I saw how incredible she is as a leader. She is so decisive and makes great choices in life. Far better than the choices I usually make. Still, It was difficult for me to fully accept female superiority but with Turning Point and the help of these powerful Love & Obey Affirmations, I have overcome my male ego and accepted women as being better leaders than men. I feel so much more relaxed and happier now in a Female led lifestyle. I suggest this book to any man struggling with their ability to fully submit to their wives or girlfriends. Trust me full submission is awesome and a big turn on for us as a couple. Our Female Positive Sex Life is off the Charts!"
"I have been in a female led relationship for two years and I realize that the relationship was mostly based on incredible sex with my girlfriend. It was more of a femdom sexual fantasy than a real FLR. Now we have reached a point where we want the female led relationship to move beyond a fantasy into a real lifestyle experience that we live on a daily basis. We want to live FLR in all aspects of our lives. My girlfriend and I are planning to get married and we definitely want it to be a female led marriage. Both of our parents are divorced and we know patriarchal relationships simply don't work. So I am really grateful for this book. It helped me to overcome my American macho male ways of thinking and accept a female led thought process. I also realize that my girlfriend is incredibly sexual and we will need to live a female positive sex life which will include her cuckolding me or us hotwifing together. Either way it turns me on and I know she's loving it."
- Craig, 34
"Philosophically, I am a liberal and a feminist. I believe in Female empowerment. I also know from my mother and father that women are better than men in many ways. My belief in feminism led me to check out Marisa's Real Men Worship Women and after I read that book and my wife read Love & Obey we started our female led relationship. When I heard about Marisa's book , Mommy's In Charge | How to Raise Kids in a Female Led Family. I started to see the true importance of breaking down gender prejudice and sexist roles in our kids. I now believe in the real superiority of women to lead families and society to guide us to a better world. I am excited that our children are being raised in a female led family and learning about loving, respecting and accepting Female Authority as a better way of life."
“I think most men are raised by their mothers and Loving Female Authority is not really as foreign to them as you would imagine. My husband and I now live the Love & Obey lifestyle and it's really working for us. He is respectful and obedient and shows his love to me everyday. I have become his Queen and he thinks only about my pleasure. Female Led Relationships are really a dream come true for me. I am so much happier now in this female led lifestyle than I have ever been in any other relationship. I really can't imagine why every woman doesn't want one. "
- Sophia, 28
“I was afraid of Female Authority, when I first heard about it. I thought it was some dominatrix kind of thing. I imagined something dark and perverted. That's not what Love & Obey is about at all. It is really more of a regal fantasy, where men are knights and they treat their women like Queens. I learned that obedience to me is an expression of my man's love for me.”
- Ava, 38
“I was so nervous. I had no idea what women wanted when it came to Oral Sex. So I decided to read Oral Sex For Women! The first time I tried out some of the techniques and positions on my girlfriend, I could see that she was pleasantly surprised. About a week into it, she asked me, "Where did you learn how to go down like that. You were amazing?" Needless to say, I'm not nervous about going down anymore!"
- Jason, 21
“When I bought Love & Obey for my wife and Real Men Worship Women for me, it changed everything for us. We are both proud of who we are and my obedience to my wife just makes everything run smooth. A happy wife really does means a happy life. We just enjoy each other so much more now. There is no more fighting and everything runs like a clock. Plus our love life has gone to new heights.”
- Liam, 42
If you have a need or a desire for spanking and want to learn from a wonderful book and a no-nonsense professional, I highly recommend Queen Marisa's Spanking Book. My husband fell into the latter category. Although I knew he had what seems like a lifetime of desire to be spanked I had never acted upon it with him until recently. After reading Love and Obey and my husband read Real Men Worship Women, we were well into our Female Led Lifestyle. She is very honest and straightforward about who she is, and what she is trying to accomplish. She really lives and believes in a Female Led Lifestyle. She is a real no-nonsense straight shooter! I was convinced her book was the perfect choice to get my husband and I into spanking and male discipline. Boy was I right, after reading the book, I began spanking my husband every time he was disrespectful, or had a lapse in his obedience and disobeyed me. His behavior improved dramatically and what was amazing, he was thanking me for improving him and straightening him out. He said he craved being my perfect man and thanked me for helping him to get to that point.
- Simone, 32
"I was wondering how Queen Marisa could top her previous books like Love & Obey and Real Men Worship Women. I was worried this would just be some rehashing of old points. But Queen Marisa made this book “bigger and better” and continued adding fresh insights into male and female led relationships and our sexuality.
Queendom: The Ultimate Guide to a Female Led Relationship builds on what Marisa’s readers already know and enjoy about the Love & Obey Female Led Relationships."
- Candice, 29
"I am a devoted follower of Queen Marisa. She changed my life with Love & Obey and Real Men Worship Women. I was so excited to read Queendom. It surpassed my expectations. Wow, I love and accept the idea of female rule of relationships and marriage and even the whole world.
Queendom: The Ultimate Guide to a Female Led Relationship shows us why women are truly superior and why men need to learn to love, obey and serve them as our Queens. This is a great book and I'm hooked on Female Led Life."
- Thomas, 22
"My husband and I started reading Queen Marisa's books about 2 years ago. She changed our life. It all started with Love & Obey and Real Men Worship Women. It started slowly but soon, I became Rick's Queen and he learned to obey and serve me. I was of course super happy being treated like a Queen but it was interesting Rick was happier than I had ever seen him in his life. It was like he really found his purpose. Queendom: The Ultimate Guide to a Female Led Relationship is now taking us to the next level - and that's pretty high because our relationship and sex life is already off the charts."
- Becky, 32
"Every day I follow Love & Obey and check out the posts on Twitter and Youtube. They are really inspirational for me. I'm trying to accept myself as a Queen and I'm getting there. I think my boyfriend wishes I would become more dominant quicker but it's a big change. I do love being his authority figure and running the show.
Queendom: The Ultimate Guide to a Female Led Relationship has inspired me to take it up a notch in my relationship. I am taking more control and my boyfriend loves it - and so do I."
- Zoe, 24
"I had a girlfriend who told me that she had been approached by her husband to try hotwifing. I din't even know what she was talking about so I decided to get a book on the subject and found one by Marisa Rudder, who seems to be a big sex expert for couples. I started reading it and checking out Love and Obey on line and I was amazed at how many people are living female led relationships. I was even more amazed to see how many couples are into hotwifing.
I started to wonder, if all these people are doing it, am I missing something? So I read Marisa's book and realized that I was missing out on the best sex of my life and if my husband was like many others, I could do it with his enthusiastic support. I have finished the book now and joined on online website and I'm currently seeking out couples and men to have my first experience. I am excited and terrified at the same time but now that I have read Hotwife, I am much more comfortable about taking the first steps and not feeling insecure about the process or what I should be doing. I don't know why but Marisa's book made it okay for us both and now we really love this lifestyle."
"One day my husband started telling me that I was his hotwife. He kept saying that I am so hot and he would go on and on about how smoking hot he thinks I am. I was flattered but I didn't why he was talking about this all of a sudden. Then he asked me about Hotwifing. I didn't really know what it was, so he said he was going to get me a book by the woman who wrote Love and Obey and Real Men Worship Women. My husband and I had read those books about 2 years ago and decided we were going to start a female led marriage. We have been living in one for over a year now and it's going great. Anyway, he got me Marisa's book Hotwife and I started reading it. Holy Cow! It was wild, I mean wild. After I finished it, I told him that I might be open to hotwifing and he thought that was great. He asked me if I would like to try it with his best friend Dan. He knew I always though Dan was a cool guy, so I agreed. We ended up having a threesome with Dan and I swear it was the hottest sex I ever had in my life. I really recommend this book and Hotwifing for any couple that wants to take a walk on the wild side."
- Rebecca, 34
"I was wondering how Marisa could top her previous "open relationship" books like Cuckolding and Swinging. I was worried this would just be some rehashing of those same points. But this book explains why hotwifing is so different from cuckolding and swinging. There were so many fresh insights into the female led relationships and our sexuality. Hotwifing, A Couple's Guide to Hotwifing gets into all the "why" psychology and all the "what" details of how to get started. I didn't really want to be a cuckold becasue I am a good well endowed lover. However, I do recognize that my younger wife has a higher need for sexual fulfillment than I do, so I talked to her about the book and she read it too. Now we are living a Hotwifing Lifestyle and we love it. My wife is much happier and I am having fun too. I don;t feel at all humilitated by it. Hotwifing actaull makes my wife and both feel empowered and our sex life has never been better."
- Matt, 38
"My husband and I got married right out of college and our sex life started getting a little stale about 2 years ago. So we started to talk about a consensual non monogamous lifestyle or an open marriage. We agreed to explore it and a friend told us about Marisa Rudder and how she was a leading author in this arena, so we bought her book Hotwife, A Couple's Guide to Hotwifing. We both thought it made sense and that it could work for us. Marisa explained it all in a sensible way and exciting way and we got hooked on the idea. First, we talked about it and fantasized with each other when we were making love. Finally we decided to go on a hookup website and we found another like minded couple there. It was pretty easy, they are no pressure people and we are the same. We took it nice and slow we meet for drinks and eventually we ended up having sex. We all had a great time. My husband and I are happier than ever and enjoying some exciting hotwifing."
I was curious about femdom because it just kinda makes sense for me. I like being in charge of people, and taking a leading role at work and in my relationships. When I met my husband who has become my sub, I was much more experienced than him with relationships and sex, so I took the lead. We have been living a female led lifestyle for about 3 years now and I was glad to discover Marisa Rudder's new book Femdom |The Erotic Guide to Female Domination. After reading this book we took things to the next level. Now I call all the shots, all the time. With my totally dominant, my hsuband became free to become completely submissive. Now he has told me several times that he likes it better this way. Now, I just love having my husband as my pet that I care about. I love being pampered and worshipped by him, having him draw me a bubble bath after he does the dishes, or fetch me my coffee early in the morning when I am unwilling to get out of bed. I also love having him as my pet to play with. He is my puppy and he follows all my commands. He often sits on the floor snuggled up with me and watching TV while i pet him and it is very relaxing and nice for both of us. In bed, I enjoy doing what I like with my husband. As my sub, he takes me spanking and disciplining him and he is very receptive to pegging. He is also a good fuck and pussy licker, if that's what I want. As far as I am concerned, living a female led life is perfect. I am happy owning such a good obedient pet who has truly learned from Marisa's books to love, obey, serve and worship me.
Kelly Ann, 39
"I'm a submissive man. I've always been a beta. I'm not a natural born leader or an athlete. I'm not really tough but I am a great guy. I love the metropolitan lifestyle. Unapologetically, unashamedly, I'm praying-for-a-female led relationship but I've never really made a point of stressing that to people because I didn't want to be ridiculed. One of the things I'm trying to do is to remind my friends in their socially approved patriarchal male led relationships is that they don't own the market on love, or committed relationships. I, too, desire to be in a committed, loving, long term relationship. I am a successful guy with a great position in my corporation and a productive member of society, I work for social justice, and to march against oppression when necessary. I understand that this is a personal goal and that different people have different aspirations for their relationships. I just think everybody should be able to love the way they want to - not the way society says I should. I have a real goal of living in a loving female led lifestyle, I'm excited to be obedient to a great and powerful woman. I am looking for a Queen. I'm just trying to remain faithful to myself, my feelings and my love life desires."
- Alan, 35
"So Carrie, this woman at work, asked me out." I knew she was married so I asked. "Are you getting a divorce or something." She said "No, she was happily married." I was totally confused. I asked her, "Then why are you asking me out?" She said, "I'm in a Female Led Relationship and my husband is a submissive cuckold and I'm looking for a bull." Now, I was even more confused. I didn't know what a submissive cuckold was or a Bull or what Carrie was thinking. She said, "Check out Marisa Rudder on Amazon and read her new book, Female Led Relationship. After you read it you'll understand all about a Female Led Relationship and why it's okay for us to go out." Well, I read the book in Kindle over the weekend (couldn't put it down) and it explained the whole thing. So on Monday, I said, "Ok, I'll go out with you." We went out and I'm now her Bull. I met her husband and he actually watched us having sex. I must admit it was very crazy at first but now I've gotten used to it and she and I have a lot of fun together with no real strings or attachments.
- Davante, 38
For me there were signs that I was submissive male who wanted and needed a dominant woman. I remember early on I did not come if a girl gave me a blowjob. But the first time I went down on a girl I came without even touching myself. I have been a big fam of all of Marisa's Rudder's books. I started with Real Men Worship Women and then read Oral Sex for Women. Now I just finished Femdom and it is fantastic. Marisa made me realize that my desire for a female led life was perfectly normal. She made me feel like, I can love and obey women any way I want to. My desire for a female led life really clicked and moved into high gear when I found a girlfriend who was into FLR. For me, at first, the real draw was simply better sex orgasm. I discovered I had better sex and awesome climax es if she took charge. Over time I learned that I was actually a submissive and soon the lifestyle moved way beyond my orgasms. I got a huge rush out of loving, obeying and servicing my girlfriend and knowing I was pleasing her. You get a pretty incredible feeling of having a real meaningful purpose in life at least that was how I felt. It became increasingly frustrating for me to attempt at pleasing my Queen and failing. It also became incredibly fulffilling to hear "good boy" from her when I satisfied her. In any case what you will learn from Marisa's books including her latest book Femdom is powerful, exciting and magical, so take it slow and enjoy the journey.
"I have always been a pretty regular guy. I played sports, I was class president once and I dated quite a few girls in high school and college. I never really thought about being a submissive man. But I met Lauren and she is the most amazing woman I have ever met.
She is smart, successful, sexy but she is also very demanding and expects me to live up to her standards. Last year, she told me that she just finished reading the Love & Obey book series and that now she wants to live a female led lifestyle. I can't live without this woman. She is the best I've ever had and I love her. So I agreed to read this book Submissive and it really changed my life. I realized that being a submissive man is not a pathetic thing. It is a romantic experience. A feeling of having complete devotion to serving a Queen like a knight. I think of myself as her knight now and I do as she commands like a knight would with his Queen. Our relationship has been off the charts lately. We have had the best sex of our lives in the past six months and we're going strong. Everything just got simpler and easier. We rarely if ever fight and if we do, I get a swift paddling and we're good again and we often end up making love after that positive discipline."
- Ethan, 24
"I have always had a feeling that I wanted to be in a Female Led relationship but never really knew how to get started. I have been watching Queen Marisa's posts on YouTube for a long and I have learned a great deal of valuable information from them. But I really wanted to know all of the details on how I could get started. Once I read her knew book, I learned everything I needed about how to get started. I am very excited because this has always been a very secret desire that I have had. I know a very hard-headed, strong willed woman who is very beautiful and I have always wanted to talk to her about my fantasy. Now I am in the process of discussing this with her and I gave her the book to read. She read it and she said it was very different but that she found it to be very interesting. So now we are dating and seeing how things will go. I think she may be the one and that she may soon become my Queen.
- Siddique, 28
I am a powerful man in my everyday life and at work. Or at least I have always played the classic "Tom Cruise" cool guy role in my life. But I was craving Something new when it comes to sex. I have read several of Marisa Rudder's books, so when I saw her new book Femdom, I thought I would give a read. I'm glad I did. I have always liked trying new things, including in the bedroom. So since I usually feel dominant and in control in my everyday life, I really wanted to try being submissive in the bedroom. Let's be honest, it is exciting to do something that you have never done before, especially sexually. I had already read Marisa's book spanking which introuced me to the world of BDSM. Now Femdom is answering a lot of questions about some new experiences that I am desiring with powerful women. I must admit, Marisa Rudder got me in the door of Female Led Life but the reason I have stayed is because I am loving it. Taking on a submissive role gives me a chance to truly learn about pleasuring a woman. In Femdom, the woman is in charge, so she can do the things she wants to and the things that bring her pleasure in bed and in everyday life. All of that means you can follow her lead, learn more about women and practice it when you get the chance. Believe me Marisa's books have taught me that the more you learn and the more you are willing to try new things, the better female led life becomes.
"I was wondering how Queen Marisa could top her previous book Real Men Worship Women. I was worried this would just be some rehashing of those same points. But this book Submissive | The Complete Guide to Male Submission explains being a beta male better than anything I have ever read before. It is so different from Real Men Worship Women. There were so many fresh insights into the male's role in a female led relationship and a Queen's sexuality. How to deal with even the toughest issues like Hotwifing and Cuckolding. And beyond that with all the details of how to accept total submission to a dominant female. This is something I always wanted and fantasized about sexually. I didn't really want to be a cuckold because I am a good well endowed lover. However, I do recognize that my Queen has to be free to rule as she desires and achieve sexual fulfillment. So I talked to her about being her submissive and all the aspects of our life that we would impact. Now we are living a Female Led Lifestyle and we love it. My Queen is much happier and I am too. I don't feel at all humiliated by it. My male submission actually makes my Queen feel empowered and that has made our sex life go off the charts."
- David, 28
"I am a big fan of Queen Marisa and I have read several of her books, including Love & Obey and Real Men Worship Women. They have already changed my life and even though I already considered myself knowledgeable, I found her new book really advanced. It explained so many of the nuances in a Female Led Relationship. I'm really glad I read it. Now everyting is completely clear. I think she answered every Frequently asked question about Female Led Relationships that you could ever find online. I am now taking my Female Led Life to a whole new level with my boyfriend, who is a wonderful submissive. He read Marisa's book's Real Men Worship Women and Submissive / The Complete Guide to Male Submission. Now, he is so loving, obedient, and he serves my every need. He is always respectful and never really disobedient. Ladies, if you have not tried a Female Led Relationship, you are really missing out.
- Zoe, 24
Nearly four years ago I stumbled upon Marisa Rudder's Twitter account and started reading her posts. After a while I bought her book Love & Obey. Ever since that time I have drastically altered my marriage from a traditional male-led vanilla one into a female-led relationship. Since that time I have read all of Marisa's books. I'm a huge fan. Now I have read Femdom and we are moving into a more intense female led lifestyle. My husband made a mistake when I was exploring Marisa's book Love & Obey, he had an affair and this was the only way I would consider remaining married. I told him we had to change to a female led life or I was out. Since that time my husband and I just celebrated a 4th year anniversary, of living a totally female led lifestyle. Many of our vanilla friends see us and comment on how we still act like newlyweds. Even strangers notice our passion. I think it is because they see our strong connection. That is the amazing part of female led life, the agreement a husband and his Queen make together. An FLR agreement creates our power exchange and the FLR dynamic, where I lead. People think he’s just being such a wonderful gentleman, which he is, but if you're in an FLR you know it's so much more. If you are seeking a better way to stay married, read Marisa's books like Femdom and learn why this life is so much better.
"I have been married before but it didn't last. I was very selfish and my truly gorgeous wife left me for another man. I know it was because I was selfish and only thought about what I wanted in and out of the bedroom. Now I have decided that the next relationship I will try is a female led relationship. I have heard that they work better and that men enjoy them and enjoy a sexier more fun loving wife than in male led relationships. In a female led relationship them man's needs are submissive to the female's needs and desires. Sex is really for her pleasure now and a submissive's pleasure comes from bringing his wife sexual pleasure. It can either be from his own actions or allowing her to explore her sexuality with other men. I don't really mind being placed in chastity and learning to be more helpful around the house. The one thing I noticed that really change is that my girlfriend used to give me blow jobs. That never happens anymore but I can tell you I go down on my girlfriend and give her oral sex almost every night. It has brought us closer and empowered her and helped me to realize the importance of loving, obeying , serving and worshipping a woman. My wife loves me more than ever now and I'm happier than ever before."
- Tom, 48
"I was searching on line and I came upon Marisa Rudder's Love and Obey website. I started checking it out and following her on Instagram, especially watching her Reels posts and I was overwhelmed. It was like she was talking to a secret part of me that always wanted to be a leader in life, my relationships and at work. I have always been an alpha woman, at school, in sports and with guys. I have read several of Marisa's books, including her latest book Female Led Relationship and this woman is the ultimate source of Female Led Relationship information. I mean anything and everything you want to know can be found in her books. I am presently in a relationship with a great guy, who is totally loving and obedient to me and he just loves doing things for me. He totally accepts me as his leader.
I must admit that I love it and I would never go back to being in a male-led relationship. I'll never be a doormat for a man. This is so much more exciting and it suits my personality so much better. I believe that if women are honest, they really want things their way.
- Claire - 22